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Thursday, July 19, 2007
ii want t0 sayy...

today, i went to cwp with piggy n she very emo after we had lunch (is emo the right word? o.o?)

anyways, i felt that the talk with her made me straightened out some of my thoughts regarding relationships with other people, and how to maintain a good healthy relationship with your peers.

i realised that while there are many gurus around, the best doctor is yourself.

because

1. you know yourself the best. others will not know you as much as you do because, you lived with yourself for your entire life.

2. like the way some people are allergic to certain medication, certain people are allergic to how problems should be resolved. the best way is for the doctor (yourself) to fix the problem w/o incurring any allergies from the persons involved.

having a high EQ, for sure, can help you to solve problems easier. EQ can be developed, i believe so.

it is important, for the way you treat other people will relflect back on you. being popular doesn't mean anything, it doesn't mean anything at all. because i've seen somewhat "popular" people become notoriously "unpopular". what goes around comes around.

don't scorn others, for you are not that good yourself.

me, being an arien, is generally unfussy about how others treat her, unless you purposely do things with a malicious purpose, or do somethings that clearly state your unhappiness towards her.

what an arien girl prefers is : if you do not like some part about me, come, let's sit down and talk. maybe i am in the wrong, maybe i need to change, come tell me what's the problem. if its really my problem, i will try to change.

but however if the other party still refuses to budge, then its YOUR problem, if the arien too ignores you, or even becomes nasty.

a tooth for a tooth, an eye for an eye.

i belive in karma.

i've had several rewarding friendships, and friendships that turned sour. nobody is to blame, for maybe we were not to be. if there's a long-lying unidentified problem, lying behind the scenes silently, nobody will know for sure, why relationships turn sour.

i've learnt to be more open, people are always not what i thought them to be.
i've learnt to brood less on unhealthy issues. and i will learn to become stronger